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June 24, 2015

THE GIFT OF GENEROSITY

The Gift of Generosity

1      Timothy 6:17-19

They are to do good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share, thus storing up treasure for themselves as a good foundation for the future, so that they may take hold of that which is truly life.

This is a sermon about generosity. You could consider it the “Stewardship Sermon”; after all, it is that time of year!  However, today’s message is about much more than the amount of money one gives to the church, to charity or to children. I feel it’s important to stretch our understanding of generosity, and what better day to do it than on the day we honor Mothers?  What better embodiment of generosity of spirit, time and finances do we have than that of our mothers? “Being truly generous is being selfless in the service of others…it's a complete giving of one's self for the sake of love of God and neighbor [and family] in every sphere of our lives.”[1]  

Generosity, for Christians, is to be a way of life, a part of one’s personality, as deeply and inseparably embedded in our spiritual makeup as is our DNA in every cell of our bodies. Generosity is one of the nine fruits of the spirit; and you can find all nine listed in Galatians 5:22. The fruits of the Spirit are the qualities that bring us closer to the person God creates each one of us to be. I also believe that most mothers’ hold the highest hopes and say the deepest prayers that their babies will grow into children and then into adults who live out these qualities throughout their lives.

By my way of thinking, the best chance—the highest hope and the finest opportunity—we have to ensure that our children have the ability to survive and thrive, physically and spiritually, in this chaotic, oppressive, and unchivalrous world is to baptize each tiny and precious child into Christ’s death and resurrection (as we have done with Luna today) and stick with them every small step of the way into maturity.

Baptism begins with a few drops of water caressed upon the child’s head, but there is so much more to do after the sacrament is conferred, and not to follow through with the vows we all make to teach each baptized child how to be a Christian, how to live the Christian life, is tantamount to a mother giving birth to a baby and then abandoning it without a thought as to its survival in the present, let alone its future. The chances of survival, let alone success, are less than slim to none, whether we are talking birth or baptism.

Paul’s words to his protégé Timothy show us a way to pulverize those dismal odds: that way is generosity. Listen: “As for the rich in this present age, charge them not to be haughty, nor to set their hopes on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly provides us with everything to enjoy. “ The mature in their baptism—the truly faithful—are, in Paul’s words, “to do good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share” (v 18).

“Generosity is usually thought of in terms of material generosity, but it’s bigger than that.  Generosity is doing or giving more than necessary.  It is going above the bare minimum required to maintain civility.  It is doing more than just what is required by social standards.”[2]

That definition does not even come close to filling the bill for Christians, however. We are called to be generous because God is generous. God richly provides us with everything to enjoy—not just what we need but everything to enjoy. That’s amazing generosity. And what is even more amazing is, God desires to be generous to everyone, not because they deserve it, but because God is generous.  Said another way, mothers always love their children, not because their children always deserve it, but because they are mothers, and mothers love their children. (There are certainly times when mothers may not like their children very much, but they always love them.)

The gift of generosity, like a mother’s love, comes from spiritual power that freely and flowingly expresses “kindness towards others…it refrains from judging, it believes the best of another. It gives the other the benefit of the doubt. It seeks to see life through another’s eyes and to walk in her or his shoes.”[3] When people put up with you when you really blow it; assume the best of you after the worst has come out of you; forgive you when you behave unforgivably; recognize your shortcomings and yet look past them unless they see a chance to help you overcome them, they are giving you the gift of generosity.

That is what being spiritually generous, as opposed to begrudgingly generous, is choosing to do more than necessary because of who we are in God because of Jesus Christ and not because of what the other person deserves.  And, in living generously at all times, in all places, under all circumstances, and with all people, Paul promises that we will “store up treasure for [ourselves] as a good foundation for the future, so that we may take hold of that which is truly life” (v 19).

What is truly life? Truly life is worth taking hold of; truly life is setting up a good foundation for our future; truly life is doing good; truly life is being rich in good works; truly life is being generous and ready to share; yet, truly, since my mother died last September, I’ve worried, wrestled and wept about the significance of my life without her in it. In my worst moments, the only comfort I can find is in the truth that my mother truly lives with Jesus now, and I will see her again one day.

The sacrament of Christian baptism, like the love of a dear mother, opens us to the ultimate gift of generosity: that God so loved the world that he gave his only Son that whoever believes in him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send his son into the world to condemn the world but in order that the world might be saved through him. The truly life is truly in Christ; thanks be to God for the generosity of salvation: the treasure we have stored up in heaven God is using to build the foundation for our place in the truly life. Amen.

May 10, 2015
First Parish Federated Church of South Berwick, ME
The Reverend Donna Lee Muise, Pastor



[1] Ray, Paul A. “Generosity.” January 10, 2011. www.tonguesoffire.blogspot.com
[2] Wende, Meredith. Pastor Meredith. “Fruit of the Spirit, Sermon Two: Kindness, Gentleness, Generosity.” First United Methodist Church, Wharton, TX. Sunday, August 14, 2011
[3] Hamilton, Adam. “The Secret of True Wealth.” May 12, 2013. www.cor.org